Big Dreams & Baby Steps by Ryan Jin, DDS
Ryan Jin, DDS’s Big Dreams & Baby Steps is a tender, uplifting, and wonderfully crafted children’s book that delivers a message as meaningful for adults as it is accessible for young readers. In a world where children are often asked what they want to “be” when they grow up—usually meaning a job title—Jin offers a refreshing and much-needed shift in perspective. Instead of emphasizing external achievements or future careers, this book centers on the deeper, more enduring qualities that truly shape a life: kindness, character, courage, and the relationships we nurture along the way.
Framed through warm, rhythmic lines and gentle repetition, the book reminds children that their worth is not defined by accomplishments or future success. Jin’s refrain—“It’s not what you do, / And it’s not who you become… / You are you are are— / A friend, brother, and son!”—anchors the story in a soothing affirmation of identity. The phrasing is intentionally simple, yet powerfully reassuring, giving young readers a sense of stability and confidence in who they already are. It’s a message that resonates long after the final page, encouraging children to value themselves not for their potential achievements, but for the love, kindness, and empathy they bring into the world right now.
Visually, the book is equally engaging. The illustrations are bright, welcoming, and expressive—inviting children into a world that feels safe, imaginative, and full of possibility. Each page reflects the joy and wonder of childhood, capturing everyday moments of exploration, friendship, and learning. These scenes help young readers connect the book’s message to their own experiences: helping a sibling, sharing with a friend, showing courage in small steps. The art reinforces the narrative beautifully, turning abstract concepts into relatable images that children can understand and internalize.
What sets Big Dreams & Baby Steps apart is the gentle duality in its tone. While it is crafted for children—with accessible vocabulary, bold visuals, and rhythmic lines—it also speaks directly to parents and caregivers. The book encourages adults to reframe how they talk to children about dreams, growth, and the future. Instead of pushing toward achievement, Jin invites families to celebrate qualities like compassion, integrity, and emotional connection. This makes the book not only a delightful read-aloud but also a meaningful tool for shaping positive conversations about self-worth and identity.
Ultimately, Big Dreams & Baby Steps is a loving reminder that becoming isn’t about striving—it’s about growing. It teaches children that every small moment matters, every relationship is meaningful, and every step on their journey—no matter how tiny—is worth celebrating. Heartfelt, hopeful, and beautifully crafted, this book is a perfect gift for new parents, young readers, and anyone who needs a gentle reminder of what truly matters in life.
Book link :- https://amzn.asia/d/8L2Bbnz
